[Book Sip] The Reason for Anxiety: 'Inside All Our Hearts, There Is Someone Lost and Wandering'

Some sentences encapsulate the entire content of the book itself, while others instantly reach the reader's heart, creating a connection with the book. We present meaningful sentences excerpted from the book. - Editor's note

In recent years, the author has compiled columns and interviews contributed to major media outlets such as Korea Economic Daily, Segye Ilbo, and JoongAng Ilbo, as well as content from the popular Seoul National University liberal arts lecture "Shaking Twenties," into one volume. The author, as a psychologist, shares insights on the anxiety, depression, and anger already pervasive in Korean society, especially among the younger generation. This is not a problem of any particular individual, but an analysis of the turbulent emotions that inevitably surge within us simply because we are human living in the present.

In fact, youth is a period marked by ongoing conflict and wandering, making anxiety more natural than affirmation. The human brain undergoes various changes and developmental stages even during youth, which deepens the anguish we feel. The brain continues to prune and mature beyond the twenties. As these changes gradually subside entering middle and old age, worries and conflicts also diminish. Perhaps this can be seen as the gradual reduction of available choices. The anxiety young people experience ultimately stems from having a lot of time and options ahead of them. Of course, these can be burdensome and sometimes difficult to even recognize for the individual. ? Page 6, from "Prologue"

Especially, narcissistic traits stand out in charismatic leaders because they are associated with the image of a great leader. This is true only when functioning normally. Adaptive narcissism involves positive self-regard, strong self-assurance, confidence, and an attractive charm that draws people. Conversely, maladaptive narcissism, stemming from low self-esteem, involves a strong perception of superiority over others and the belief that everyone must bow before oneself, often leading to aggressive behavior. This contrasts with adaptive narcissism, which helps effectively exercise leadership. ? Page 40, from Chapter 1 "Looking into the Well of the Mind - Excessive Self-Consciousness and Narcissism"

However, only about 10% of anger actually leads to aggressive and destructive behavior. Above all, anger is an effective emotion that can positively influence human life. It signals that something is wrong with the current situation. It is an emotion that warns of internal and external demands and dangers while helping to face problems directly. In a way, anger is a kind of "survival mechanism" that helps overcome threats posed by current or future problems and pursue specific goals. ? Page 48, from Chapter 1 "Looking into the Well of the Mind - Anger Is My Strength"

There Is Someone Lost and Wandering in All of Our Hearts | Written by Kwak Geumju | Hans Media | 240 pages | 16,000 KRW

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