"Did I Do Wrong?" A Woman in Her 20s Defends Herself After Scolding a 7-Year-Old Boy Who Peeped into the Women's Restroom

Eye Contact Through the Bathroom Door Crack
"You Have to Wait Outside" VS "You Might See"

A controversy has arisen over a story in which a woman in her 20s scolded a 7-year-old boy who was peeking through the gap of a bathroom door, only to be protested by the boy's mother.

On the 3rd, an online community Nate Pann posted a thread titled "Did I do something wrong in the women's restroom?"

A controversy has arisen over a story in which a woman in her 20s scolded a 7-year-old boy who was peeking through the bathroom door gap, but was instead protested by the boy's mother.
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The author, Ms. A, explained the situation, saying, "I’m posting this because I don’t understand if I overreacted just now in the bathroom. After using a cafe, I was sitting on the toilet in the restroom inside the shopping mall, using my phone, when suddenly I felt someone’s gaze. I wondered 'What is this?' and when I looked up, I saw one eyeball through the gap in the door."

She continued, "Our eyes met exactly, and I was so startled that I screamed like in a horror movie, and then the eyeball disappeared."

Ms. A said, "I hurried out and looked in the direction where the child disappeared and saw a boy who looked about 6 or 7 years old. I said, 'Hey kid, why are you spying? You shouldn’t peek through the door.' However, my heart was pounding, and I was very shocked just to have made eye contact with a stranger’s eyeball, so I think my voice came out a bit loud."

However, "The boy started crying, and a woman who seemed to be his mother came rushing over and asked what happened. When I explained, she argued back, saying, 'He’s not a big middle or high school student. Isn’t it possible that a 7-year-old boy is just looking for his mom?'"

In disbelief, Ms. A complained, "When I retorted, 'Isn’t 7 years old old enough to wait outside?' she instead tried to make me out to be a strange woman."

A posted an additional photo of a similar sign at the request of netizens.
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Eventually, Ms. A said, "After arguing for a while, I had to leave for an appointment, so I shouted, 'If he’s 7, he’s old enough to wait outside the bathroom, so don’t bring him into the women’s restroom. Either teach him properly not to peek or stop bringing him in,' and left." She asked netizens, "Am I still too young to understand children?"

Many netizens agreed with Ms. A’s opinion, saying, "If he’s looking for his mom, he should call out loudly first, not peek through the door," and said the author’s actions were justified. Another netizen, also a mother raising sons and daughters, said, "I have never taken my son to the women’s restroom at that age." However, some commented, "7 years old is still a child. It’s possible he looked through the door gap without much thought while looking for his mom."

One netizen said, "Even as a man, I sometimes get annoyed when I think someone can see inside through the gap while I’m using the restroom," and criticized the bathroom door structure, saying, "Construction workers should do a proper job."

Meanwhile, according to the 'Public Hygiene Management Act Enforcement Rules' revised by the Ministry of Health and Welfare in June last year, children aged 4 years (48 months) and older are not allowed to enter bathhouses and changing rooms with a parent of the opposite sex.

When the Public Hygiene Management Act Enforcement Rules were first established in 2000, the age restriction for mixed-gender entry was 7 years and older. However, as children’s growth rates accelerated, the age was lowered to 5 years and older in the 2003 revision, and lowered by one more year last year.

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